AUTHOR'S INTRODUCTION
After considering the historic page, and viewing the living world
with anxious solicitude, the most melancholy emotions of sorrowful
indignation have depressed my spirits, and I have sighed when
obliged to confess that either Nature has made a great difference
between man and man, or that the civilisation which has hitherto
taken place in the world has been very partial. I have turned
over various books written on the subject of education, and patiently
observed the conduct of parents and the management of schools;
but what has been the result?--a profound conviction that the
neglected education of my fellow-creatures is the grand source
of the misery I deplore, and that women, in particular, are rendered
weak and wretched by a variety of concurring causes, originating
from one hasty conclusion. The conduct and manners of women, in
fact, evidently prove that their minds are not in a healthy state;
for, like the flowers which are planted in too rich a soil, strength
and usefulness are sacrificed to beauty; and the flaunting leaves,
after having pleased a fastidious eye, fade, disregarded on the
stalk, long before the season when they ought to have arrived
at maturity. One cause of this barren blooming I attribute to
a false system of education, gathered from the books written on
this subject by men who, considering females rather as women than
human creatures, have been more anxious to make them alluring
mistresses than affectionate wives and rational mothers; and the
understanding of the sex has been so bubbled by this specious
homage, that the civilised women of the present century, with
a few exceptions, are only anxious to inspire love, when they
ought to cherish a nobler ambition, and by their abilities and
virtues exact respect.
In a treatise, therefore, on female rights and manners, the works
which have been particularly written for their improvement must
not be overlooked, especially when it is asserted, in direct terms,
that the minds of women are enfeebled by false refinement; that
the books of instruction, written by men of genius, have had the
same tendency as more frivolous productions; and that, in the
true style of Mahometanism, they are treated as a kind of subordinate
beings, and not as a part of the human species, when improvable
reason is allowed to be the dignified distinction which raises
men above the brute creation, and puts a natural sceptre in a
feeble hand.
Yet, because I am a woman, I would not lead my readers to suppose
that I mean violently to agitate the contested question respecting
the quality or inferiority of the sex; but as the subject lies
in my way, and I cannot pass it over without subjecting the main
tendency of my reasoning to misconstruction, I shall stop a moment
to deliver, in a few words, my opinion. In the government of the
physical world it is observable that the female in point of strength
is, in general, inferior to the male. This is the law of Nature;
and it does not appear to be suspended or abrogated in favour
of woman. A degree of physical superiority cannot, therefore,
be denied, and it is a noble prerogative! But not content with
this natural preeminence, men endeavour to sink us still lower,
merely to render us alluring objects for a moment; and women,
intoxicated by the adoration which men, under the influence of
their senses, pay them, do not seek to obtain a durable interest
in their hearts, or to become the friends of the fellow-creatures
who find amusement in their society.
I am aware of an obvious inference. From every quarter have I
heard exclamations against masculine women, but where are they
to be found? If by this appellation men mean to inveigh against,
their ardour in hunting, shooting, and gaming, I shall most cordially
join in the cry; but if it be against the imitation of manly virtues,
or, more properly speaking, the attainment of those talents and
virtues, the exercise of which ennobles the human character, and
which raises females in the scale of animal being, when they are
comprehensively termed mankind, all those who view them with a
philosophic eye must, I should think, wish with me, that they
may every day grow more and more masculine.
This discussion naturally divides the subject. I shall first consider
women in the gland light of human creatures, who in common with
men, are placed on this earth to unfold their faculties; and afterwards
I shall more particularly point out their peculiar designation.
I wish also to steer clear of an error which many respectable
writers have fallen into; for the instruction which has hitherto
been addressed to women, has rather been applicable to ladies,
if the little indirect advice that is scattered through "Sandford
and Merton" be excepted; but, addressing my sex in a firmer
tone, I pay particular attention to those in the middle class,
because they appear to be in the most natural state. Perhaps the
seeds of false refinement, immorality, and vanity, have ever been
shed by the great. Weak, artificial beings, raised above the common
wants and affections of their race, in a premature unnatural manner,
undermine the very foundation of virtue, and spread corruption
through the whole mass of society! As a class of mankind they
have the strongest claim to pity; the education of the rich tends
to render them vain and helpless, and the unfolding mind is not
strengthened by the practice of those duties which dignify the
human character. They only live to amuse themselves, and by the
same law which in Nature invariably produces certain effects,
they soon only afford barren amusement.
But as I purpose taking a separate view of the different ranks
of society, and of the moral character of women in each, this
hint is for the present sufficient; and I have only alluded to
the subject because it appears to me to be the very essence of
an introduction to give a cursory account of the contents of the
work it introduces.
My own sex, I hope, will excuse me, if I treat them like rational
creatures, instead of flattering their fascinating graces, and
viewing them as if they were in a state of perpetual childhood,
unable to stand alone. I earnestly wish to point out in what true
dignity and human happiness consists. I wish to persuade women
to endeavour to acquire strength, both of mind and body, and to
convince them that the soft phrases, susceptibility of heart,
delicacy of sentiment, and refinement of taste, are almost synonymous
with epithets of weakness, and that those beings who are only
the objects of pity, and that kind of love which has been termed
its sister, will soon become objects of contempt.
Dismissing, then, those pretty feminine phrases, which the men
condescendingly use to soften our slavish dependence, and despising
that weak elegancy of mind, exquisite sensibility, and sweet docility
of manners, supposed to be the sexual characteristics of the weaker
vessel, I wish to show that elegance is inferior to virtue, that
the first object of laudable ambition is to obtain a character
as a hurnan being, regardless of the distinction of sex, and that
secondary views should be brought to this simple touchstone.
This is a rough sketch of my plan; and should I express my conviction
with the energetic emotions that I feel whenever I think of the
subject, the dictates of experience and reflection will be felt
by some of my readers. Animated by this important object, I shall
disdain to cull my phrases or polish my style. I aim at being
useful, and sincerity will render me unaffected; for, wishing
rather to persuade by the force of my arguments than dazzle by
the elegance of my language, I shall not waste my time in rounding
periods, or in fabricating the turgid bombast of artificial feelings,
which, coming from the head, never reach the heart. I shall be
employed about things, not words! and, anxious to render my sex
more respectable members of society, I shall try to avoid that
flowery diction which has slided from essays into novels, and
from novels into familiar letters and conversation.
These pretty superlatives, dropping glibly from the tongue, vitiate
the taste, and create a kind of sickly delicacy that turns away
from simple unadorned truth; and a deluge of false sentiments
and overstretched feelings, stifling the natural emotions of the
heart, render the domestic pleasures insipid, that ought to sweeten
the exercise of those severe duties, which educate a rational
and immortal being for a nobler field of action.
The education of women has of late been more attended to than
formerly; yet they are still reckoned a frivolous sex, and ridiculed
or pitied by the writers who endeavour by satire or instruction
to improve them. It is acknowledged that they spend many of the
first years of their lives in acquiring a smattering of accomplishments;
meanwhile strength of body and mind are sacrificed to libertine
notions of beauty, to the desire of establishing themselves--the
only way women can nse in the world--by marriage. And this desire
making mere animals of them, when they marry they act as such
children may be expected to act,--they dress, they paint, and
nickname God's creatures. Surely these weak beings are only fit
for a seraglio! Can they be expected to govern a family with judgment,
or take care of the poor babes whom they bring into the world?
If, then, it can be fairly deduced from the present conduct of
the sex, from the prevalent fondness for pleasure which takes
place of ambition and those nobler passions that open and enlarge
the soul, that the instruction which women have hitherto received
has only tended, with the constitution of civil society, to render
them insignificant objects of desire -mere propagators of fools!
-if it can be proved that in aiming to accomplish them, without
cultivating their understandings, they are taken out of their
sphere of duties, and made ridiculous and useless when the short-lived
bloom of beauty is over,[1] I presume that rational men will excuse
me for endeavouring to persuade them to become more masculine
and respectable.
Indeed the word masculine is only a bugbear; there is little reason
to fear that women will acquire too much courage or fortitude,
for their apparent inferiority with respect to bodily strength
must render them in some degree dependent on men in the various
relations of life; but why should it be increased by prejudices
that give a sex to virtue, and confound simple truths with sensual
reveries?
Women are, in fact, so much degraded by mistaken notions of female
excellence, that I do not mean to add a paradox when I assert
that this artificial weakness produces a propensity to tyrannise,
and gives birth to cunning, the natural opponent of strength,
which leads them to play off those contemptible infantile airs
that undermine esteem even whilst they excite desire. Let men
become more chaste and modest, and if women do not grow wiser
in the same ratio, it will be clear that they have weaker understandings.
It seems scarcely necessary to say that I now speak of the sex
in general. Many individuals have more sense than their male relatives;
and, as nothing preponderates where there is a constant struggle
for an equilibrium without it has naturally more gravity, some
women govern their husbands without degrading themselves, because
intellect will always govern.
NOTES
[1] A lively writer (I cannot recollect his name) asks what business
women turned of forty have to do in the world?
SIR,--Having read with great pleasure a pamphlet which you have
lately published, I dedicate this volume to you--the first dedication
that I have ever written, to induce you to read it with attention;
and, because I think that you will understand me, which I do not
suppose many pert witlings will, who may ridicule the arguments
they are unable to answer. But, sir I carry my respect for your
understanding still farther; so far that I am confident you will
not throw my work aside, and hastily conclude that I am in the
wrong, because you did not view the subject in the same light
yourself. And, pardon my frankness, but I must observe, that you
treated it in too cursory a manner, contented to consider it as
it had been considered formerly, when the rights of man, not to
advert to woman, were trampled on as chimerical--I call upon you,
therefore, now to weigh what I have advanced respecting the rights
of woman and national education; and I call with the firm tone
of humanity, for my arguments, sir, are dictated by a disinterested
spirit--I plead for my sex, not for myself. Independence I have
long considered as the grand blessing of life, the basis of every
virtue; and independence I will ever secure by contracting my
wants, though I were to live on a barren heath.
It is then an affection for the whole human race that makes my
pen dart rapidly along to support what I believe to be the cause
of virtue; and the same motive leads me earnestly to wish to see
woman placed in a station in which she would advance, instead
of retarding, the progress of those glorious principles that give
a substance to morality. My opinion, indeed, respecting the rights
and duties of woman seems to flow so naturally from these simple
principles, that I think it scarcely possible but that some of
the enlarged minds who formed your admirable constitution will
coincide with me.
In France there is undoubtedly a more general diffusion of knowledge
than in any part of the European world, and I attribute it, in
a great measure, to the social intercourse which has long subsisted
between the sexes. It is true--I utter my sentiments with freedom--that
in France the very essence of sensuality has been extracted to
regale the voluptuary, and a kind of sentimental lust has prevailed,
which, together with the system of duplicity that the whole tenor
of their political and civil government taught, have given a sinister
sort of sagacity to the French character, properly termed finesse,
from which naturally flow a polish of manners that injures the
substance by hunting sincerity out of society. And modesty, the
fairest garb of virtue! has been more-grossly insulted in France
than even in England, till their women have treated as prudish
that attention to decency which brutes instinctively observe.
Manners and morals are so nearly allied that they have often been
confounded; but, though the former should only be the natural
reflection of the latter, yet, when various causes have produced
factitious and corrupt manners, which are very early caught, morality
becomes an empty name. The personal reserve, and sacred respect
for cleanliness and delicacy in domestic life, which French women
almost despise, are the graceful pillars of modesty; but, far
from despising them, if the pure flame of patriotism have reached
their bosoms, they should labour to improve the morals of their
fellow-citizens, by teaching men, not only to respect modesty
in women, but to acquire it themselves, as the only way to merit
their esteem.
Contending for the rights of woman, my main argument is built
on this simple principle, that if she be not prepared by education
to become the companion of man, she will stop the progress of
knowledge and virtue; for truth must be common to all, or it will
be inefficacious with respect to its influence on general practice.
And how can woman be expected to co-operate unless she knows why
she ought to be virtuous? unless freedom strengthens her reason
till she comprehends her duty, and see in what manner it is connected
with her real good. If children are to be educated to understand
the true principle of patriotism, their mother must be a patriot;
and the love of mankind, from which an orderly train of virtues
spring, can only be produced by considering the moral and civil
interest of mankind; but the education and situation of woman
at present shuts her out from such investigations.
In this work I have produced many arguments, which to me were
conclusive, to prove that the prevailing notion respecting a sexual
character was subversive of morality, and I have contended, that
to render the human body and mind more perfect, chastity must
more universally prevail, and that chastity will never be respected
in the male world till the person of a woman is not, as it were,
idolised, when little virtue or sense embellish it with the grand
traces of mental beauty, or the interesting simplicity of affection.
Consider, sir, dispassionately these observations, for a glimpse
of this truth seemed to open before you when you observed, "that
to see one-half of the human race excluded by the other from all
participation of government was a political phenomenon that, according
to abstract principles, it was impossible to explain." If
so, on what does your constitution rest? If the abstract rights
of man will bear discussion and explanation, those of woman, by
a parity of reasoning, will not shrink from the same test; though
a different opinion prevails in this country, built on the very
arguments which you use to justify the oppression of woman--prescription.
Consider--I address you as a legislator--whether, when men contend
for their freedom, and to be allowed to judge for themselves respecting
their own happiness, it be not inconsistent and unjust to subjugate
women, even though you firmly believe that you are acting in the
manner best calculated to promote their happiness ? Who made man
the exclusive judge, if woman partake with him of the gift of
reason?
In this style argue tyrants of every denomination, from the weak
king to the weak father of a family; they are all eager to crush
reason, yet always assert that they usurp its throne only to be
useful. Do you not act a similar part when you force all women,
by denying them civil and political rights, to remain immured
in their families groping in the dark? for surely, sir, you will
not assert that a duty can be binding which is not founded on
reason? If, indeed, this be their destination, arguments may be
drawn from reason; and thus augustly supported, the more understanding
women acquire, the more they will be attached to their duty--comprehending
it--for unless they comprehend it, unless their morals be fixed
on the same immutable principle as those of man, no authority
can make them discharge it in a virtuous manner. They may be convenient
slaves, but slavery will have its constant effect, degrading the
master and the abject dependent.
But if women are to be excluded, without having a voice, from
ù participation of the natural rights of mankind, prove
first, to ward off the charge of injustice and inconsistency,
that they want reason, else this flaw in your NEW CONSTITUTION
will ever show that man must, in some shape, act like a tyrant,
and tyranny, in whatever part of society it rears its brazen front,
will ever undermine morality.
I have repeatedly asserted, and produced what appeared to me irrefragable
arguments drawn from matters of fact to prove my assertion, that
women cannot by force be confined to domestic concerns; for they
will, however ignorant, intermeddle with more weighty affairs,
neglecting private duties only to disturb, by cunning tricks,
the orderly plans of reason which rise above their comprehension.
Besides, whilst they are only made to acquire personal accomplishments,
men will seek for pleasure in variety, and faithless husbands
will make faithless wives; such ignorant beings, indeed, will
be very excusable when, not taught to respect public good, nor
allowed any civil rights, they attempt to do themselves justice
by retaliation.
The box of mischief thus opened in society, what is to preserve
private virtue, the only security of public freedom and universal
happiness?
Let there be then no coercion established in society, and the
common law of gravity prevailing, the sexes will fall into their
proper places. And now that more equitable laws are forming your
citizens, marriage may become more sacred; your young men may
choose wives from motives of affection, and your maidens allow
love to root out vanity.
The father of a family will not then weaken his constitution and
debase his sentiments by visiting the harlot, nor forget, in obeying
the call of appetite, the purpose for which it was implanted.
And the mother will not neglect her children to practise the arts
of coquetry, when sense and modesty secure her the friendship
of her husband.
But, till men become attentive to the duty of a father, it is
vain to expect women to spend that time in their nursery which
they, " wise in their generation," choose to spend at
their glass; for this exertion of cunning is only an instinct
of nature to enable them to obtain indirectly a little of that
power of which they are unjustly denied a share; for, if women
are not permitted to enjoy legitimate rights, they will render
both men and themselves vicious to obtain illicit privileges.
I wish, sir, to set some investigations of this kind afloat in
France; and should they lead to a confirmation of my principles
when your constitution is revised, the Rights of Woman may be
respected, if it be fully proved that reason calls for this respect,
and loudly demands JUSTICE for one-half of the human race.
I am, Sir,
Yours respectfully,
M. W.
NOTE
When I began to write this work, I divided it into three parts,
supposing that one volume would contain a full discussion of the
arguments which seemed to me to rise naturally from a few simple
principles; but fresh illustrations occurring as I advanced, I
now present only the first part to the public.
Many subjects, however, which I have cursorily alluded to, call
for particular investigation, especially the laws relative to
women, and the consideration of their peculiar duties. These will
furnish ample matter for a second volume, which in due time will
be published, to elucidate some of the sentiments and complete
many of the sketches begun in the first.
CHAPTER I
THE RIGHTS AND INVOLVED DUTIES OF MANKIND CONSIDERED
In the present state of society it appears necessary to go back
to first principles in search of the most simple truths, and to
dispute with some prevailing prejudice every inch of ground. To
clear my way, I must be allowed to ask some plain questions, and
the answers will probably appear as unequivocal as the axioms
on which reasoning is built; though, when entangled with various
motives of action, they are formally contradicted, either by the
words or conduct of men.
In what does man's pre-eminence over the brute creation consist?
The answer is as clear as that a half is less than the whole,
in Reason.
What acquirement exalts one being above another? Virtue, we spontaneously
reply.
For what purpose were the passions implanted? That man by struggling
with them might attain a degree of knowledge denied to the brutes,
whispers Experience.
Consequently the perfection of our nature and capability of happiness
must be estimated by the degree of reason, virtue, and knowledge,
that distinguish the individual, and direct the laws which bind
society: and that from the exercise of reason, knowledge and virtue
naturally flow, is equally undeniable, if mankind be viewed collectively.
The rights and duties of man thus simplified, it seems almost
impertinent to attempt to illustrate truths that appear so incontrovertible;
yet such deeply rooted prejudices have clouded reason, and such
spurious qualities have assumed the name of virtues, that it is
necessary to pursue the course of reason as it has been perplexed
and involved in error, by various adventitious circumstances,
comparing the simple axiom with casual deviations.
Men, in general, seem to employ their reason to justify prejudices,
which they have imbibed, they can scarcely trace how, rather than
to root them out. The mind must be strong that resolutely forms
its own principles; for a kind of intellectual cowardice prevails
which makes many men shrink from the task, or only do it by halves.
Yet the imperfect conclusions thus drawn, are frequently very
plausible, because they are built on partial experience, on just,
though narrow, views.
Going back to first principles, vice skulks, with all its native
deformity, from close investigation; but a set of shallow reasoners
are always exclaiming that these arguments prove too much, and
that a measure rotten at the core may be expedient. Thus expediency
is continually contrasted with simple principles, till truth is
lost in a mist of words, virtue, in forms, and knowledge rendered
a sounding nothing, by the specious prejudices that assume its
name.
That the society is formed in the wisest manner, whose constitution
is founded on the nature of man, strikes, in the abstract, every
thinking being so forcibly, that it looks like presumption to
endeavour to bring forward proofs; though proof must be brought,
or the strong hold of prescription will never be forced by reason;
yet to urge prescription as an argument to justify the depriving
men (or women) of their natural rights, is one of the absurd sophisms
which daily insult common sense.
The civilisation of the bulk of the people of Europe is very partial;
nay, it may be made a question, whether they have acquired any
virtues in exchange for innocence, equivalent to the misery produced
by the vices that have been plastered over unsightly ignorance,
and the freedom which has been bartered for splendid slavery.
The desire of dazzling by riches, the most certain pre-eminence
that man can obtain, the pleasure of commanding flattering sycophants,
and many other complicated low calculations of doting self-love,
have all contributed to overwhelm the mass of mankind, and make
liberty a convenient handle for mock patriotism. For whilst rank
and titles are held of the utmost importance, before which Genius
"must hide its diminished head," it is, with a few exceptions,
very unfortunate for a nation when a man of abilities, without
rank or property, pushes himself forward to notice. Alas ! what
unheard-of misery have thousands suffered to purchase a cardinal's
hat for an intriguing obscure adventurer, who longed to be ranked
with princes, or lord it over them by seizing the triple crown!
Such, indeed, has been the wretchedness that has flowed from hereditary
honours, riches, and monarchy, that men of lively sensibility
have almost uttered blasphemy in order to justify the dispensations
of Providence. Man has been held out as independent of His power
who made him, or as a lawless planet darting from its orbit to
steal the celestial fire of reason; and the vengeance of Heaven,
lurking in the subtile flame, like Pandora's pent-up mischiefs,
sufficiently punished his temerity, by introducing evil into the
world.
Impressed by this view of the misery and disorder which pervaded
society, and fatigued with jostling against artificial fools,
Rousseau became enamoured of solitude, and, being at the same
time an optimist, he labours with uncommon eloquence to prove
that man was naturally a solitary animal. Misled by his respect
for the goodness of God, who certainly--for what man of sense
and feeling can doubt it !--gave life only to communicate happiness,
he considers evil as positive, and the work of man; not aware
that he was exalting one attribute at the expense of another,
equally necessary to divine perfection.
Reared on a false hypothesis, his arguments in favour of a state
of nature are plausible, but unsound. I say unsound; for to assert
that B state of nature is preferable to civilisation, in all its
possible perfection, is, in other words, to arraign supreme wisdom;
and the paradoxical exclamation, that God has made all things
right, and that error has been introduced by the creature, whom
He formed, knowing what He formed, is as unphilosophical as impious.
When that wise Being who created us and placed us here, saw the
fair idea, He willed, by allowing it to be so, that the passions
should unfold our reason, because He could see that present evil
would produce future good. Could the helpless creature whom He
called from nothing break loose from His providence, and boldly
learn to know good by practising evil, without His permission
? No. How could that energetic advocate for immortality argue
so inconsistently ? Had mankind remained for ever in the brutal
state of nature, which even his magic pen cannot paint as a state
in which a single virtue took root, it would have been clear,
though not to the sensitive unreflecting wanderer, that man was
born to run the circle of life and death, and adorn God's garden
for some purpose which could not easily be reconciled with His
attributes.
But if, to crown the whole, there were to be rational creatures
produced, allowed to rise in excellence by the exercise of powers
implanted for that purpose; if benignity itself thought fit to
call into existence a creature above the brutes,[1] who could
think and improve himself, why should that inestimable gift, for
a gift it was, if man was so created, as to have a capacity to
rise above the state in which sensation produced brutal ease,
be called, in direct terms, a curse? A curse it might be reckoned,
if the whole of our existence were bounded by our continuance
in this world; for why should the gracious fountain of life give
us passions, and the power of reflecting, only to imbitter our
days and inspire us with mistaken notions of dignity? Why should
He lead us from love of ourselves to the sublime emotions which
the discovery of His wisdom and goodness excites, if these feelings
were not set in motion to improve our nature, of which they make
a part,[2] and render us capable of enjoying a more godlike portion
of happiness? Firmly persuaded that no evil exists in the world
that God did not design to take place, I build my belief on the
perfection of God.
Rousseau exerts himself to prove that all was right originally:
a crowd of authors that all is now right: and I, that all will
be right.
But, true to his first position, next to a state of nature, Rousseau
celebrates barbarism, and apostrophising the shade of Fabricius,
he forgets that, in conquering the world, the Romans never dreamed
of establishing their own liberty on a firm basis, or of extending
the reign of virtue. Eager to support his system, he stigmatises,
as vicious, every effort of genius; and, uttering the apotheosis
of savage virtues, he exalts those to demi-gods, who were scarcely
human--the brutal Spartans, who, in defiance of justice and gratitude,
sacrificed, in cold blood, the slaves who had shown themselves
heroes to rescue their oppressors.
Disgusted with artificial manners and virtues, the citizen of
Geneva, instead of properly sifting the subject, threw away the
wheat with the chaff, without waiting to inquire whether the evils
which his ardent soul turned from indignantly, were the consequence
of civilisation or the vestiges of barbarism. He saw vice trampling
on virtue, and the semblance of goodness taking the place of the
reality; he saw talents bent by power to sinister purposes, and
never thought of tracing the gigantic mischief up to arbitrary
power, up to the hereditary distinctions that clash with the mental
superiority that naturally raises a man above his fellows. He
did not perceive that regal power, in a few generations, introduces
idiotism into the noble stem, and holds out baits to render thousands
idle and vicious.
Nothing can set the regal character in a more contemptible point
of view, than the various crimes that have elevated men to the
supreme dignity. Vile intrigues, unnatural crimes, and every vice
that degrades our nature, have been the steps to this distinguished
eminence; yet millions of men have supinely allowed the nerveless
limbs of the posterity of such rapacious prowlers to rest quietly
on their ensanguined thrones.[3]
What but a pestilential vapour can hover over society when its
chief director is only instructed in the invention of crimes,
or the stupid routine of childish ceremonies? Will men never be
wise?--will they never cease to expect corn from tares, and figs
from thistles?
It is impossible for any man, when the most favourable circumstances
concur, to acquire sufficient knowledge and strength of mind to
discharge the duties of a king, entrusted with uncontrolled power;
how then must they be violated when his very elevation is an insuperable
bar to the attainment of either wisdom or virtue, when all the
feelings of a man are stifled by flattery, and reflection shut
out by pleasure! Sure it is madness to make the fate of thousands
depend on the caprice of a weak fellow-creature, whose very station
sinks him necessarily below the meanest of his subjects ! But
one power should not be thrown down to exalt another--for all
power inebriates weak man; and its abuse proves that the more
equality there is established among men, the more virtue and happiness
will reign in society. But this and any similar maxim deduced
from simple reason, raises an outcry--the Church or the State
is in danger, if faith in the wisdom of antiquity is not implicit;
and they who, roused by the sight of human calamity, dare to attack
human authority, are reviled as despisers of God, and enemies
of man. These are bitter calumnies, yet they reached one of the
best of men,[4] whose ashes still preach peace, and whose memory
demands a respectful pause, when subjects are discussed that lay
so near his heart.
After attacking the sacred majesty of kings, I shall scarcely
excite surprise by adding my firm persuasion that every profession,
in which great subordination of rank constitutes its power, is
highly injurious to morality.
A standing army, for instance, is incompatible with freedom; because
subordination and rigour are the very sinews of military discipline;
and despotism is necessary to give vigour to enterprises that
one will directs. A spirit inspired by romantic notions of honour,
a kind of morality founded on the fashion of the age, can only
be felt by a few officers, whilst the main body must be moved
by command, like the waves of the sea; for the strong wind of
authority pushes the crowd of subalterns forward, they scarcely
know or care why, with headlong fury.
Besides, nothing can be so prejudicial to the morals of the inhabitants
of country towns as the occasional residence of a set of idle
superficial young men, whose only occupation is gallantry, and
whose polished manners render vice more dangerous, by concealing
its deformity under gay ornamental drapery. An air of fashion,
which is but a badge of slavery, and proves that the soul has
not a strong individual character, awes simple country people
into an imitation of the vices, when they cannot catch the slippery
graces, of politeness. Every corps is a chair; of despots, who,
submitting and tyrannising without exercising their reason, become
dead-weights of vice and folly on the community. A man of rank
or fortune, sure of rising by interest, has nothing to do but
to pursue some extravagant freak; whilst the needy gentleman,
who is to rise, as the phrase turns, by his merit, becomes a servile
parasite or vile pander.
Sailors, the naval gentlemen, come under the same description,
only their vices assume a different and a grosser cast. They are
more positively indolent, when not discharging the ceremonials
of their station; whilst the insignificant fluttering of soldiers
may be termed active idleness. More confined to the society of
men, the former acquire a fondness for humour and mischievous
tricks; whilst the latter, mixing frequently with well-bred women,
catch a sentimental cant. But mind is equally out of the question,
whether they indulge the horselaugh, or polite simper.
May I be allowed to extend the comparison to a profession where
more mind is certainly to be found,--for the clergy have superior
opportunities of improvement, though subordination almost equally
cramps their faculties? The blind submission imposed at college
to forms of belief serves as a novitiate to the curate, who must
obsequiously respect the opinion of his rector or patron, if he
mean to rise in his profession. Perhaps there cannot be a more
forcible contrast than between the servile dependent gait of a
poor curate and the courtly mien of a bishop. And the respect
and contempt they inspire, render the discharge of their separate
functions equally useless.
It is of great importance to observe that the character of every
man is, in some degree, formed by his profession. A man of sense
may only have a cast of countenance that wears off as you trace
his individuality, whilst the weak, common man has scarcely ever
any character, but what belongs to the body; at least, all his
opinions have been so steeped in the vat consecrated by authority,
that the faint spirit which the grape of his own vine yields,
cannot be distinguished.
Society, therefore, as it becomes more enlightened, should be
very careful not to establish bodies of men who must necessarily
be made foolish or vicious by the very constitution of their profession.
In the infancy of society, when men were just emerging out of
barbarism, chiefs and priests, touching the most powerful springs
of savage conduct, hope and fear, must have had unbounded sway.
An aristocracy, of course, is naturally the first form of government.
But, clashing interests soon losing their equipoise, a monarchy
and hierarchy break out of the confusion of ambitious struggles,
and the foundation of both is secured by feudal tenures. This
appears to be the origin of monarchical and priestly power, and
the dawn of civilisation. But such combustible materials cannot
long be pent up; and, getting vent in foreign wars and intestine
insurrections, the people acquire some power in the tumult, which
obliges their rulers to gloss over their oppression with a show
of right. Thus, as wars, agriculture, commerce, and literature,
expand the mind, despots are compelled to make covert corruption
hold fast the power which was formerly snatched by open force.[5]
And this baneful lurking gangrene is most quickly spread by luxury
and superstition, the sure dregs of ambition. The indolent puppet
of a court first becomes a luxurious monster, or fastidious sensualist,
and then makes the contagion which his unnatural state spread,
the instrument of tyranny.
It is the pestiferous purple which renders the progress of civilisation
a curse, and warps the understanding, till men of sensibility
doubt whether the expansion of intellect produces a greater portion
of happiness or misery. But the nature of the poison points out
the antidote; and had Rousseau mounted one step higher in his
investigation, or could his eye have pierced through the foggy
atmosphere, which he almost disdained to breathe, his active mind
would have darted forward to contemplate the perfection of man
in the establishment of true civilisation, instead of taking his
ferocious flight back to the night of sensual ignorance.
NOTES
[1] Contrary to the opinion of the anatomists, who argye by analogy
from the formation of the teeth, stomach, and intestines, Rousseau
will not allow a man to be a carniverous animal. And, carried
away from nature by a love of system, he disputes whether man
be a gregarious animal, though the long and helpless state of
infancy seems to point him out as particularly impelled to pair,
the first step towards herding.
[2] What would you say to a mechanic whom you had desired to make
a watch to point out the hour of the day, if, to show his ingenuity,
he added wheels to make it a repeater, etc., that perplexed the
simple mechanism; should he urge to excuse himself had you not
touched a certain spring, you would have known nothing of the
matter, and that he should have amused himself by making an experiment
without doing you any harm, would you not retort fairly upon him,
bu insisting that if he had not added those needless wheels and
springs, the accident could not have happened?
[3] Could there be a greater insult offered to the rights of man
than the beds of justice in France, when an infant was made the
organ of the detestable Dubois?
[4] Dr. Price.
[5] Men of abilities scatter seeds that grow up and have a great
influence on the forming opinion; and when once the public opinion
preponderates, through the exertion of reason, the overthrow of
arbitrary power is not very distant.
CHAPTER II
THE PREVAILING OPINION OF A SEXUAL CHARACTER DISCUSSED
To account for, and excuse the tyranny of man, many ingenious
arguments have been brought forward to prove, that the two sexes,
in the acquirement of virtue, ought to aim at attaining a very
different character; or, to speak explicitly, women are not allowed
to have sufficient strength of mind to acquire what really deserves
the name of virtue. Yet it should seem, allowing them to have
souls, that there is but one way appointed by Providence to lead
mankind to either virtue or happiness.
If then women are not a swarm of ephemeron triflers, why should
they be kept in ignorance under the specious name of innocence?
Men complain, and with reason, of the follies and caprices of
our sex, when they do not keenly satirise our headstrong passions
and grovelling vices. Behold, I should answer, the natural effect
of ignorance ! The mind will ever be unstable that has only prejudices
to rest on, and the current will run with destructive fury when
there are no barriers to break its force. Women are told from
their infancy, and taught by the example of their mothers, that
a little knowledge of human weakness, justly termed cunning, softness
of temper, outward obedience, and a scrupulous attention to a
puerile kind of propriety, will obtain for them the protection
of man; and should they be beautiful, everything else is needless,
for at least twenty years of their lives.
Thus Milton describes our first frail mother; though when he tells
us that women are formed for softness and sweet attractive grace,
I cannot comprehend his meaning, unless, in the true Mahometan
strain, he meant to deprive us of souls, and insinuate that we
were beings only designed by sweet attractive grace, and docile
blind obedience, to gratify the senses of man when he can no longer
soar on the wing of contemplation.
How grossly do they insult us who thus advise us only to render
ourselves gentle, domestic brutes ! For instance, the winning
softness so warmly and frequently recommended, that governs by
obeying. What childish expressions, and how insignificant is the
being--can it be an immortal one?--who will condescend to govern
by such sinister methods? "Certainly," says Lord Bacon,
"man is of kin to the beasts by his body; and if he be not
of kin to God by his spirit, he is a base and ignoble creature!"
Men, indeed, appear to me to act in a very unphilosophical manner,
when they try to secure the good conduct of women by attempting
to keep them always in a state of childhood. Rousseau was more
consistent when he wished to stop the progress of reason in both
sexes, for if men eat of the tree of knowledge, women will come
in for a taste; but, from the imperfect cultivation which their
understandings now receive, they only attain a knowledge of evil.
Children, I grant, should be innocent; but when the epithet is
applied to men, or women, it is but a civil term for weakness.
For if it be allowed that women were destined by Providence to
acquire human virtues, and, by the exercise of their understandings,
that stability of character which is the firmest ground to rest
our future hopes upon, they must be permitted to turn to the fountain
of light, and not forced to shape their course by the twinkling
of a mere satellite. Milton, I grant, was of a very different
opinion; for he only bends to the indefeasible right of beauty,
though it would be difficult to render two passages which I now
mean to contrast, consistent. But into similar inconsistencies
are great men often led by their senses:
To whom thus Eve with perfect beauty adorn'd My author and disposer,
what thou bid'st Unargued I obey; so God ordains. God is thy law
thou mine: to know no more Is woman's happiest knowledge and her
praise.
These are exactly the arguments that I have used to children;
but I have added, your reason is now gaining strength, and, till
it arrives at some degree of maturity, you must look up to me
for advice,--then you ought to think, and only rely on God. Yet
in the following lines Milton seems to coincide with me, when
he makes Adam thus expostulate with his Maker:
Hast Thou not made me here Thy substitute, And these inferior
far beneath me set ? Among equals what society Can sort, what
harmony or true delight ? Which must be mutual, in proportion
due Given and received; but in disparity The one intense, the
other still remiss Cannot well suit with either, but soon prove
Tedious alike: of fellowship I speak Such as I seek fit to participate
All rational delight--
In treating therefore of the manners of women, let us, disregarding
sensual arguments, trace what we should endeavour to make them
in order to co-operate, if the expression be not too bold, with
the Supreme Being. By individual education, I mean, for the sense
of the word is not precisely defined, such an attention to a child
as will slowly sharpen the senses, form the temper, regulate the
passions as they begin to ferment, and set the understanding to
work before the body arrives at maturity; so that the man may
only have to proceed, not to begin, the important task of learning
to think and reason.
To prevent any misconstruction, I must add, that I do not believe
that a private education can work the wonders which some sanguine
writers have attributed to it. Men and women must be educated,
in a great degree, by the opinions and manners of the society
they live in. In every age there has been a stream of popular
opinion that has carried all before it, and given a family character,
as it were, to the century. It may then fairly be inferred, that,
till society be differently constituted, much cannot be expected
from education. It is, however, sufficient for my present purpose
to assert that, whatever effect circumstances have on the abilities,
every being may become virtuous by the exercise of its own reason;
for if but one being was created with vicious inclinations, that
is positively bad, what can save us from atheism? or if we worship
a God, is not that God a devil?
Consequently, the most perfect education, in my opinion, is such
an exercise of the understanding as is best calculated to strengthen
the body and form the heart. Or, in other words, to enable the
individual to attain such habits of virtue as will render it independent.
In fact, it is a farce to call any being virtuous whose virtues
do not result from the exercise of its own reason. This was Rousseau's
opinion respecting men; I extend it to women, and confidently
assert that they have been drawn out of their sphere by false
refinement, and not by an endeavour to acquire masculine qualities.
Still the regal homage which they receive is so intoxicating,
that until the manners of the times are changed, and formed on
more reasonable principles, it may be impossible to convince them
that the illegitimate power which they obtain by degrading themselves
is a curse, and that they must return to nature and equality if
they wish to secure the placid satisfaction that unsophisticated
affections impart. But for this epoch we must wait--wait perhaps
till kings and nobles, enlightened by reason, and, preferring
the real dignity of man to childish state, throw off their gaudy
hereditary trappings; and if then women do not resign the arbitrary
power of beauty--they will prove that they have less mind than
man. XXXXX I may be accused of arrogance; still I must declare
what I firmly believe, that all the writers who have written on
the subject of female education and manners, from Rousseau to
Dr. Gregory, have contributed to render women more artificial,
weak characters, than they would otherwise have been; and consequently,
more useless members of society. I might have expressed this conviction
in a lower key, but I am afraid it would have been the whine of
affectation, and not the faithful expression of my feelings, of
the clear result which experience and reflection have led me to
draw. When I come to that division of the subject, I shall advert
to the passages that I more particularly disapprove of, in the
works of the authors I have just alluded to; but it is first necessary
to observe that my objection extends to the whole purport of those
books, which tend, in my opinion, to degrade one-half of the human
species, and render women pleasing at the expense of every solid
virtue.
Though, to reason on Rousseau's ground, if man did attain a degree
of perfection of mind when his body arrived at maturity, it might
be proper, in order to make a man and his wife one, that she should
rely entirely on his understanding; and the graceful ivy, clasping
the oak that supported it, would form a whole in which strength
and beauty would be equally conspicuous. But, alas ! husbands,
as well as their helpmates, are often only overgrown children,--nay,
thanks to early debauchery, scarcely men in their outward form,--and
if the blind lead the blind, one need not come from heaven to
tell us the consequence.
Many are the causes that, in the present corrupt state of society,
contribute to enslave women by cramping their understandings and
sharpening their senses. One, perhaps, that silently does more
mischief than all the rest, is their disregard of order.
To do everything in an orderly manner is a most important precept,
which women, who, generally speaking, receive only a disorderly
kind of education, seldom attend to with that degree of exactness
that men, who from their infancy are broken into method, observe.
This negligent kind of guesswork--for what other epithet can be
used to point out the random exertions of a sort of instinctive
common sense never brought to the test of reason?--prevents their
generalising matters of fact; so they do to-day what they did
yesterday, merely because they did it yesterday.
This contempt of the understanding in early life has more baneful
consequences than is commonly supposed; for the little knowledge
which women of strong minds attain is, from various circumstances,
of a more desultory kind than the knowledge of men, and it is
acquired more by sheer observations on real life than from comparing
what has been individually observed with the results of experience
generalised by speculation. Led by their dependent situation and
domestic employments more into society, what they learn is rather
by snatches; and as learning is with them in general only a secondary
thing, they do not pursue any one branch with that persevering
ardour necessary to give vigour to the faculties and clearness
to the judgment. In the present state of society a little learning
is required to support the character of a gentleman, and boys
are obliged to submit to a few years of discipline. But in the
education of women, the cultivation of the understanding is always
subordinate to the acquirement of some corporeal accomplishment.
Even when enervated by confinement and false notions of modesty,
the body is prevented from attaining that grace and beauty which
relaxed half-formed limbs never exhibit. Besides, in youth their
faculties are not brought forward by emulation; and having no
serious scientific study, if they have natural sagacity, it is
turned too soon on life and manners. They dwell on effects and
modifications, without tracing them back to causes; and complicated
rules to adjust behaviour are a weak substitute for simple principles.
As a proof that education gives this appearance of weakness to
females, we may instance the example of military men, who are,
like them, sent into the world before their minds have been stored
with knowledge, or fortified by principles. The consequences are
similar; soldiers acquire a little superficial knowledge, snatched
from the muddy current of conversation, and from continually mixing
with society, they gain what is termed a knowledge of the world;
and this acquaintance with manners and customs has frequently
been confounded with a knowledge of the human heart. But can the
crude fruit of casual observation, never brought to the test of
judgment, formed by comparing speculation and experience, deserve
such a distinction ? Soldiers, as well as women, practise the
minor virtues with punctilious politeness. Where is then the sexual
difference, when the education has been the same? All the difference
that I can discern arises from the superior advantage of liberty
which enables the former to see more of life.
It is wandering from my present subject, perhaps, to make a political
remark; but as it was produced naturally by the train of my reflections,
I shall not pass it silently over.
Standing armies can never consist of resolute robust men; they
may be well-disciplined machines, but they will seldom contain
men under the influence of strong passions, or with very vigorous
faculties; and as for any depth of understanding, I will venture
to affirm that it is as rarely to be found in the army as amongst
women. And the cause, I maintain, is the same. It may be further
observed that officers are also particularly attentive to their
persons, fond of dancing, crowded rooms, adventures, and ridicule.[1]
Like the fair sex, the business of their lives is gallantry; they
were taught to please, and they only live to please. Yet they
do not lose their rank in the distinction of sexes, for they are
still reckoned superior to women, though in what their superiority
consists, beyond what I have just mentioned, it is difficult to
discover.
The great misfortune is this, that they both acquire manners before
morals, and a knowledge of life before they have from reflection
any acquaintance with the grand ideal outline of human nature.
The consequence is natural. Satisfied with common nature, they
become a prey to prejudices, and taking all their opinions on
credit, they blindly submit to authority. So that if they have
any sense, it is a kind of instinctive glance that catches proportions,
and decides with respect to manners, but fails when arguments
are to be pursued below the surface, or opinions analysed.
May not the same remark be applied to women? Nay, the argument
may be carried still further, for they are both thrown out of
a useful station by the unnatural distinctions established in
civilised life. Riches and hereditary honours have made cyphers
of women to give consequence to the numerical figure; and idleness
has produced a mixture of gallantry and despotism into society,
which leads the very men who are the slaves of their mistresses
to tyrannise over their sisters, wives, and daughters. This is
only keeping them in rank and file, it is true. Strengthen the
female mind by enlarging it, and there will be an end to blind
obedience; but as blind obedience is ever sought for by power,
tyrants and sensualists are in the right endeavour to keep woman
in the dark, because only want slaves, and the latter a plaything.
The sensualist, indeed, has been the most dangerous of tyrants,
and women have been duped by their lovers, as princes by their
ministers, whilst dreaming that they reigned over them.
I now principally allude to Rousseau, for his character of Sophia
is undoubtedly a captivating one, though it appears to me grossly
unnatural. However, it is not the superstructure, but the foundation
of her character, the principles on which her education was built,
that I mean to attack; nay, warmly as I admire the genius of that
able writer, whose opinions I shall often have occasion to cite,
indignation always takes place of admiration, and the rigid frown
of insulted virtue effaces the smile of complacency which his
eloquent periods are wont to raise when I read his voluptuous
reveries. Is this the man who, in his ardour for virtue, would
banish all the soft arts of peace, and almost carry us back to
Spartan discipline? Is this the man who delights to paint the
useful struggles of passion, the triumphs of good dispositions,
and the heroic flights which carry the glowing soul out of itself?
How are these mighty sentiments lowered when he describes the
pretty foot and enticing airs of his little favourite ! But for
the present I waive the subject, and instead of severely reprehending
the transient effusions of overweening sensibility, I shall only
observe that whoever has cast a benevolent eye on society must
often have been gratified by the sight of humble mutual love not
dignified by sentiment, or strengthened by a union in intellectual
pursuits. The domestic trifles of the day have afforded matters
for cheerful converse, and innocent caresses have softened toils
which did not require great exercise of mind or stretch of thought;
yet has not the sight of this moderate felicity excited more tenderness
than respect ?--an emotion similar to what we feel when children
are playing or animals sporting;[2] whilst the contemplation of
the noble struggles of suffering merit has raised admiration,
and carried our thoughts to that world where sensation will give
place to reason.
Women are therefore to be considered either as moral beings, or
so weak that they must be entirely subjected to the superior faculties
of men.
Let us examine this question. Rousseau declares that a woman should
never for a moment feel herself independent, that she should be
governed by fear to exercise her natural cunning, and made a coquettish
slave in order to render her a more alluring object of desire,
a sweeter companion to man, whenever he chooses to relax himself.
He carries the arguments, which he pretends to draw from the indications
of nature, still further, and insinuates that truth and fortitude,
the corner-stones of all human virtue, should be cultivated with
certain restrictions, because, with respect to the female character,
obedience is the grand lesson which ought to be impressed with
unrelenting rigour.
What nonsense ! When will a great man arise with sufficient strength
of mind to puff away the fumes which pride and sensuality have
thus spread over the subject? If women are by nature inferior
to men, their virtues must be the same in quality, if not in degree,
or virtue is a relative idea; consequently their conduct should
be founded on the same principles, and have the same aim.
Connected with man as daughters, wives, and mothers, their moral
character may be estimated by their manner of fulfilling those
simple duties; but the end, the grand end, of their exertions
should be to unfold their own faculties, and acquire the dignity
of conscious virtue. They may try to render their road pleasant;
but ought never to forget, in common with man, that life yields
not the felicity which can satisfy an immortal soul. I do not
mean to insinuate that either sex should be so lost in abstract
reflections or distant views as to forget the affections and duties
that lie before them, and are, in truth, the means appointed to
produce the fruit of life; on the contrary, I would warmly recommend
them, even while I assert, that they afford most satisfaction
when they are considered in their true sober light.
Probably the prevailing opinion that woman was created for man,
may have taken its rise from Moses' poetical story; yet as very
few, it is presumed, who have bestowed any serious thought on
the subject ever supposed that Eve was, literally speaking, one
of Adam's ribs, the deduction must be allowed to fall to the ground,
or only be so far admitted as it proves that man, from the remotest
antiquity, found it convenient to exert his strength to subjugate
his companion, and his invention to show that she ought to have
her neck bent under the yoke, because the whole creation was only
created for his convenience or pleasure.
Let it not be concluded that I wish to invert the order of things.
I have already granted that, from the constitution of their bodies,
men seemed to be designed by Providence to attain a greater degree
of virtue. I speak collectively of the whole sex; but I see not
the shadow of a reason to conclude that their virtues should differ
in respect to their nature. In fact, how can they, if virtue has
only one eternal standard? I must therefore, if I reason consequentially,
as strenuously maintain that they have the same simple direction
as that there is a God.
It follows then that cunning should not be opposed to wisdom,
little cares to great exertions, or insipid softness, varnished
over with the name of gentleness, to that fortitude which grand
views alone can inspire.
I shall be told that woman would then lose many of her peculiar
graces, and the opinion of a well-known poet might be quoted to
refute my unqualified assertion. For Pope has said in the name
of the whole male sex:
Yet ne'er so sure our passion to create, As when she touch'd the
brink of all we hate.
In what light this sally places men and women I shall leave to
the judicious to determine. Meanwhile, I shall content myself
with observing, that I cannot discover why, unless they are mortal,
females should always be degraded by being made subservient to
love or lust.
To speak disrespectfully of love is, I know, high treason against
sentiment and fine feelings; but I wish to speak the simple language
of truth, and rather to address the head than the heart. To endeavour
to reason love out of the world would be to out-Quixote Cervantes,
and equally offend against common sense; but an endeavour to restrain
this tumultuous passion, and to prove that it should not be allowed
to dethrone superior powers, or to usurp the sceptre which the
understanding should very coolly wield, appears less wild.
Youth is the season for love in both sexes; but in those days
of thoughtless enjoyment provision should be made for the more
important years of life, when reflection takes place of sensation.
But Rousseau, and most of the male writers who have followed his
steps, have warmly inculcated that the whole tendency of female
education ought to be directed to one point--to render them pleasing.
Let me reason with the supporters of this opinion who have any
knowledge of human nature. Do they imagine that marriage can eradicate
the habitude of life? The woman who has only been taught to please
will soon find that her charms are oblique sunbeams, and that
they cannot have much effect on her husband's heart when they
are seen every day, when the summer is passed and gone. Will she
then have sufficient native energy to look into herself for comfort,
and cultivate her dormant faculties? or is it not more rational
to expect that she will try to please other men, and, in the emotions
raised by the expectation of new conquests, endeavour to forget
the mortification her love or pride has received? When the husband
ceases to be a lover, and the time will inevitably come, her desire
of pleasing will then grow languid, or become a spring of bitterness;
and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of all passions, gives
place to jealousy or vanity.
I now speak of women who are restrained by principle or prejudice.
Such women, though they would shrink from an intrigue with real
abhorrence, yet, nevertheless, wish to be convinced by the homage
of gallantry that they are cruelly neglected by their husbands;
or, days and weeks are spent in dreaming of the happiness enjoyed
by congenial souls, till their health is undermined and their
spirits broken by discontent. How then can the great art of pleasing
be such a necessary study? it is only useful to a mistress. The
chaste wife and serious mother should only consider her power
to please as the polish of her virtues, and the affection of her
husband as one of the comforts that render her task less difficult,
and her life happier. But, whether she be loved or neglected,
her first wish should be to make herself respectable, and not
to rely for all her happiness on a being subject to like infirmities
with herself.
The worthy Dr. Gregory fell into a similar error. I respect his
heart, but entirely disapprove of his celebrated Legacy to his
Daughters.
He advises them to cultivate a fondness for dress, because a fondness
for dress, he asserts, is natural to them. I am unable to comprehend
what either he or Rousseau mean when they frequently use this
indefinite term. If they told us that in a pre-existent state
the soul was fond of dress, and brought this inclination with
it into a new body, I should listen to them with a half-smile,
as I often do when I hear a rant about innate elegance. But if
he only meant to say that the exercise of the faculties will produce
this fondness, I deny it. It is not natural; but arises, like
false ambition in men, from a love of power.
Dr. Gregory goes much further; he actually recommends dissimulation,
and advises an innocent girl to give the lie to her feelings,
and not dance with spirit, when gaiety of heart would make her
feet eloquent without making her gestures immodest. In the name
of truth and common sense, why should not one woman acknowledge
that she can take more exercise than another? or, in other words,
that she has a sound constitution; and why, to damp innocent vivacity,
is she darkly to be told that men will draw conclusions which
she little thinks of? Let the libertine draw what inference he
pleases; but, I hope, that no sensible mother will restrain the
natural frankness of youth by instilling such indecent cautions.
out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh; and a wiser
than Solomon hath said that the heart should be made clean, and
not trivial ceremonies observed, which it is not very difficult
to fulfil with scrupulous exactness when vice reigns in the heart.
Women ought to endeavour to purify their heart; but can they do
so when their uncultivated understandings make them entirely dependent
on their senses for employment and amusement, when no noble pursuits
set them above the little vanities of the day, or enables them
to curb the wild emotions that agitate a reed, over which every
passing breeze has power? To gain the affections of a virtuous
man, is affectation necessary? Nature has given woman a weaker
frame than man; but, to ensure her husband's affections, must
a wife, who, by the exercise of her mind and body whilst she was
discharging the duties of a daughter, wife, and mother, has allowed
her constitution to retain its natural strength, and her nerves
a healthy tone,--is she, I say, to condescend to use art, and
feign a sickly delicacy, in order to secure her husband's affection?
Weakness may excite tenderness, and gratify the arrogant pride
of man; but the lordly caresses of a protector will not gratify
a noble mind that pants for and deserves to be respected. Fondness
is a poor substitute for friendship!
In a seraglio, I grant, that all these arts are necessary; the
epicure must have his palate tickled, or he will sink into apathy;
but have women so little ambition as to be satisfied with such
a condition? Can they supinely dream life away in the lap of pleasure,
or the languor of weariness, rather than assert their claim to
pursue reasonable pleasures, and render themselves conspicuous
by practising the virtues which dignify mankind? Surely shehas
not an immortal soul who can loiter life away merely employed
to adorn her person, that she may amuse the languid hours, and
soften the cares of a fellow-creature who is willing to be enlivened
by her smiles and tricks, when the serious business of life is
over.
Besides, the woman who strengthens her body and exercises her
mind will, by managing her family and practising various virtues,
become the friend, and not the humble dependent of her husband;
and if she, by possessing such substantial qualities, merit his
regard, she will not find it necessary to conceal her affection,
nor to pretend to an unnatural coldness of constitution to excite
her husband's passions. In fact, if we revert to history, we shall
find that the women who have distinguished themselves have neither
been the most beautiful nor the most gentle of their sex.
Nature, or, to speak with strict propriety, God, has made all
things right; but man has sought him out many inventions to mar
the work. I now allude to that part of Dr. Gregory's treatise,
where he advises a wife never to let her husband know the extent
of her sensibility or affection. Voluptuous precaution, and as
ineffectual as absurd. Love, from its very nature, must be transitory.
To seek for a secret that would render it constant, would be as
wild a search as for the philosopher's stone, or the grand panacea;
and the discovery would be equally useless, or rather pernicious,
to mankind. The most holy band of society is friendship. It has
been well said, by a shrewd satirist, "that rare as true
love is true friendship is still rarer."
This is an obvious truth, and, the cause not lying deep, will
not elude a slight glance of inquiry.
Love, the common passion, in which chance and sensation take place
of choice and reason, is, in some degree, felt by the mass of
mankind; for it is not necessary to speak, at present, of the
emotions that rise above or sink below love. This passion, naturally
increased by suspense and difficulties, draws the mind out of
its accustomed state, and exalts the affections; but the security
of marriage, allowing the fever of love to subside, a healthy
temperature is thought insipid only by those who have not sufficient
intellect to substitute the calm tenderness of friendship, the
confidence of respect, instead of blind admiration, and the sensual
emotions of fondness.
This is, must be, the course of nature. Friendship or indifference
inevitably succeeds love. And this constitution seems perfectly
to harmonise with the system of government which prevails in the
moral world. Passions are spurs to action, and open the mind;
but they sink into mere appetites, become a personal and momentary
gratification when the object is gained, and the satisfied mind
rests in enjoyment. The man who had some virtue whilst he was
struggling for a crown, often becomes a voluptuous tyrant when
it graces his brow; and, when the lover is not lost in the husband,
the dotard, a prey to childish caprices and fond jealousies, neglects
the serious duties of life, and the caresses which should excite
confidence in his children are lavished on the overgrown child,
his wife.
In order to fulfil the duties of life, and to be able to pursue
with vigour the various employments which form the moral character,
a master and mistress of a family ought not to continue to love
each other with passion. I mean to say that they ought not to
indulge those emotions which disturb the order of society, and
engross the thoughts that should be otherwise employed. The mind
that has never been engrossed by one object wants vigour,--if
it can long be so, it is weak.
A mistaken education, a narrow uncultivated mind, and many sexual
prejudices, tend to make women more constant than men; but, for
the present, I shall not .ouch on this branch of the subject.
I will go still further, and advance, without dreaming of a paradox,
that an unhappy marriage is often very advantageous to a family,
and that the neglected wife is, in general, the best mother. And
this would almost always be the consequence if the female mind
were more enlarged; for, it seems to be the common dispensation
of Providence, that what we gain in present enjoyment should be
deducted from the treasure of life, experience; and that when
we are gathering the flowers of the day, and revelling in pleasure,
the solid fruit of toil and wisdom should not be caught at the
same time. The way lies before us, we must turn to the right or
left; and he who will pass life away in bounding from one pleasure
to another, must not complain if he acquire neither wisdom nor
respectability of character.
Supposing, for a moment, that the soul is not immortal, and that
man was only created for the present scene,--I think we should
have reason to complain that love, infantine fondness, ever grew
insipid and palled upon the sense. Let us eat, drink, and love,
for to-morrow we die, would be, in fact, the language of reason,
the morality of life; and who but a fool would part with a reality
for a fleeting shadow ? But, if awed by observing the improbable
powers of the mind, we disdain to confine our wishes or thoughts
to such a comparatively mean field of action, that only appears
grand and important, as it is connected with a boundless prospect
and sublime hopes, what necessity is there for falsehood in conduct,
and why must the sacred majesty of truth be violated to detain
a deceitful good that saps the very foundation of virtue? Why
must the female mind be tainted by coquettish arts to gratify
the sensualist, and prevent love from subsiding into friendship,
or compassionate tenderness, when there are not qualities on which
friendship can be built? Let the honest heart show itself, and
reason teach passion to submit to necessity; or, let the dignified
pursuit of virtue and knowledge raise the mind above those emotions
which rather embitter than sweeten the cup of life, when they
are not restrained within due bounds.
I do not mean to allude to the romantic passion, which is the
concomitant of genius. Who can clip its wing? But that grand passion
not proportioned to the puny enjoyments of life, is only true
to the sentiment, and feeds on itself. The passions which have
been celebrated for their durability have always been unfortunate.
They have acquired strength by absence and constitutional melancholy.
The fancy has hovered round a form of beauty dimly seen; but familiarity
might have turned admiration into disgust, or, at least, into
indifference, and allowed the imagination leisure to start fresh
game. With perfect propriety, according to this view of things,
does Rousseau make the mistress of his soul, Eloisa, love St.
Preux, when life was fading before her; but this is no proof of
the immortality of the passion.
Of the same complexion is Dr. Gregory's advice respecting delicacy
of sentiment, which he advises a woman not to acquire, if she
have determined to marry. This determination, however, perfectly
consistent with his former advice, he calls indelicate, and earnestly
persuades his daughters to conceal it, though it may govern their
conduct, as if it were indelicate to have the common appetites
of human nature.
Noble morality! and consistent with the cautious prudence of a
little soul that cannot extend its views beyond the present minute
division of existence. If all the faculties of woman's mind are
only to be cultivated as they respect her dependence on man; if,
when a husband be obtained, she have arrived at her goal, and
meanly proud, rests satisfied with such a paltry crown, let her
grovel contentedly, scarcely raised by her employments above the
animal kingdom; but, if struggling for the prize of her high calling,
she look beyond the present scene, let her cultivate her understanding
without stopping to consider what character the husband may have
whom she is destined to marry. Let her only determine, without
being too anxious about present happiness, to acquire the qualities
that ennoble a rational being, and a rough inelegant husband may
shock her taste without destroying her peace of mind. She will
not model her soul to suit the frailties of her companion, but
to bear with them; his character may be a trial, but not an impediment
to virtue.
If Dr. Gregory confined his remark to romantic.expectations of
constant love and congenial feelings, he should have recollected
that experience will banish what advice can never make us cease
to wish for, when the imagination is kept alive at the expense
of reason.
I own it frequently happens, that women who have fostered a romantic
unnatural delicacy of feeling, waste their [3] lives in imagining
how happy they should have been with a husband who could love
them with a fervid increasing affection every day, and all day.
But they might as well pine married as single, and would not be
a jot more unhappy with a bad husband than longing for a good
one. That a proper education, or, to speak with more precision,
a well-stored mind, would enable a woman to support a single life
with dignity, I grant; but that she should avoid cultivating her
taste, lest her husband should occasionally shock it, is quitting
a substance for a shadow. To say the truth, I do not know of what
use is an improved taste, if the individual be not rendered more
independent of the casualties of life; if new sources of enjoyment,
only dependent on the solitary operations of the mind, are not
opened. People of taste, married or single, without distinction,
will ever be disgusted by various things that touch not less observing
minds. On this conclusion the argument must not be allowed to
hinge; but in the whole sum of enjoyment is taste to be denominated
a blessing?
The question is, whether it procures most pain or pleasure? The
answer will decide the propriety of Dr. Gregory's advice, and
show how absurd and tyrannic it is thus to lay down a system of
slavery, or to attempt to educate moral beings by any other rules
than those deduced from pure reason, which apply to the whole
species.
Gentleness of manners, forbearance and long-suffering, are such
amiable Godlike qualities, that in sublime poetic strains the
Deity has been invested with them; and, perhaps, no representation
of His goodness so strongly fastens on the human affections as
those that represent Him abundant in mercy and willing to pardon.
Gentleness, considered in this point of view, bears on its front
all the characteristics of grandeur, combined with the winning
graces of condescension; but what a different aspect it assumes
when it is the submissive demeanour of dependence, the support
of weakness that loves, because it wants protection; and is forbearing,
because it must silently endure injuries; smiling under the lash
at which it dare not snarl. Abject as this picture appears, it
is the portrait of an accomplished woman, according to the received
opinion of female excellence, separated by specious reasoners
from human excellence. Or, they [4] kindly restore the rib, and
make one moral being of a man and woman; not forgetting to give
her all the "submissive charms."
How women are to exist in that state where there is neither to
be marrying nor giving in marriage, we are not told. For though
moralists have agreed that the tenor of life seems to prove that
man is prepared by various circumstances for a future state, they
constantly concur in advising woman only to provide for the present.
Gentleness, docility, and a spaniel like affection are, on this
ground, consistently recommended as the cardinal virtues of the
sex; and, disregarding the arbitrary economy of nature, one writer
has declared that it is masculine for a woman to be melancholy.
She was created to be the toy of man, his rattle, and it must
jingle in his ears whenever, dismissing reason, he chooses to
be amused.
To recommend gentleness, indeed, on a broad basis is strictly
philosophical. A frail being should labour to be gentle. But when
forbearance confounds right and wrong, it ceases to be a virtue;
and, however convenient it may be found in a companion--that companion
will ever be considered as an inferior, and only inspire a vapid
tenderness, which easily degenerates into contempt. Still, if
advice could really make a being gentle, whose natural disposition
admitted not of such a fine polish, something towards the advancement
of order would be attained; but if, as might quickly be demonstrated,
only affectation be produced by this indiscriminate counsel, which
throws a stumbling-block in the way of gradual improvement, and
true melioration of temper, the sex is not much benefited by sacrificing
solid virtues to the attainment of superficial graces, though
for a few years they may procure the individuals regal sway.
As a philosopher, I read with indignation the plausible epithets
which men use to soften their insults; and, as a moralist, I ask
what is meant by such heterogeneous associations, as fair defects,
amiable weaknesses, etc. ? If there be but one criterion of morals,
but one architype for man, women appear to be suspended by destiny,
according to the vulgar tale of Mahomet's coffin; they have neither
the unerring instinct of brutes, nor are allowed to fix the eye
of reason on a perfect model. They were made to be loved, and
must not aim at respect, lest they should be hunted out of society
as masculine.
But to view the subject in another point of view. Do passive indolent
women make the best wives? Confining our discussion to the present
moment of existence, let us see how such weak creatures perform
their part ? Do the women who, by the attainment of a few superficial
accomplishments, have strengthened the prevailing prejudice, merely
contribute to the happiness of their husbands? Do they display
their charms merely to amuse them ? And have women who have early
imbibed notions of passive obedience, sufficient character to
manage a family or educate children? So far from it, that, after
surveying the history of woman, I cannot help agreeing with the
severest satirist, considering the sex as the weakest as well
as the most oppressed half of the species. What does history disclose
but marks of inferiority, and how few women have emancipated themselves
from the galling yoke of sovereign man? So few that the exceptions
remind me of an ingenious conjecture respecting Newton-that he
was probably a being of superior order accidentally caged in a
human body. Following the same train of thinking, I have been
led to imagine that the few extraordinary women who have rushed
in eccentrical directions out of the orbit prescribed to their
sex, were male spirits, confined by mistake in female frames.
But if it be not philosophical to think of sex when the soul is
mentioned, the inferiority must depend on the organs; or the heavenly
fire, which is to ferment the clay, is not given in equal portions.
But avoiding, as I have hitherto done, any direct comparison of
the two sexes collectively, or frankly acknowledging the inferiority
of woman, according to the present appearance of things, I shall
only insist that men have increased that inferiority till women
are almost sunk below the standard of rational creatures. Let
their faculties have room to unfold, and their virtues to gain
strength, and then determine where the whole sex must stand in
the intellectual scale. Yet let it be remembered, that for a small
number of distinguished women I do not ask a place.
It is difficult for us purblind mortals to say to what height
human discoveries and improvements may arrive when the gloom of
despotism subsides, which makes us stumble at every step; but,
when morality shall be settled on a more solid basis, then, without
being gifted with a prophetic spirit, I will venture to predict
that woman will be either the friend or slave of man. We shall
not, as at present, doubt whether she is a moral agent, or the
link which unites man with brutes. But should it then appear that
like the brutes they were principally created for the use of man,
he will let them patiently bite the bridle, and not mock them
with empty praise; or, should their rationality be proved, he
will not impede their improvement merely to gratify his sensual
appetites. He will not, with all the graces of rhetoric, advise
them to submit implicitly their understanding to the guidance
of man. He will not, when he treats of the education of women,
assert that they ought never to have the free use of reason, nor
would he recommend cunning and dissimulation to beings who are
acquiring, in like manner as himself, the virtues of humanity.
Surely there can be but one rule of right, if morality has an
eternal foundation, and whoever sacrifices virtue, strictly so
called, to present convenience, or whose duty it is to act in
such a manner, lives only for the passing day, and cannot be an
accountable creature.
The poet then should have dropped his sneer when he says:
If weak women go astray, The stars are more ill fault than they
For that they are bound by the adamantine chain of destiny is
most certain, if it be proved that they are never to exercise
their own reason, never to be independent, never to rise above
opinion, or to feel the dignity of a rational will that only bows
to God, and often forgets that the universe contains any being
but itself and the model of perfection to which its ardent gaze
is turned, to adore attributes that, softened into virtues, may
be imitated in kind, though the degree overwhelms the enraptured
mind.
If, I say, for I would not impress by declamation when Reason
offers her sober light, if they be really capable of acting like
rational creatures, let them not be treated like slaves; or, like
the brutes who are dependent on the reason of man, when they associate
with him; but cultivate their minds, give them the salutary sublime
curb of principle, and let them attain conscious dignity by feeling
themselves only dependent on God. Teach them, in common with man,
to submit to necessity, instead of giving, to render them more
pleasing, a sex to morals.
Further, should experience prove that they cannot attain the same
degree of strength of mind, perseverance, and fortitude, let their
virtues be the same in kind, though they may vainly struggle for
the same degree; and the superiority of man will be equally clear,
if not clearer; and truth, as it is a simple principle, which
admits of no modification, would be common to both. Nay the order
of society, as it is at present regulated, would not be inverted,
for woman would then only have the rank that reason assigned her,
and arts could not be practised to bring the balance even, much
less to turn it.
These may be termed Utopian dreams. Thanks to that Being who impressed
them on my soul, and gave me sufficient strength of mind to dare
to exert my own reason, till, becoming dependent only on Him for
the support of my virtue, I view, with indignation, the mistaken
notions that enslave my sex.
I love man as my fellow; but his sceptre, real or usurped, extends
not to me, unless the reason of an individual demands my homage;
and even then the submission is to reason, and not to man. In
fact, the conduct of an accountable being must be regulated by
the operations of its own reason; or on what foundation rests
the throne of God?
It appears to me necessary to dwell on these obvious truths, because
females have been insulated, as it were; and while they have been
stripped of the virtues that should clothe humanity, they have
been decked with artificial graces that enable them to exercise
a short-lived tyranny. Love, in their bosoms, taking place of
every nobler passion, their sole ambition is to be fair, to raise
emotion instead of inspiring respect; and this ignoble desire,
like the servility in absolute monarchies, destroys all strength
of character. Liberty is the mother of virtue, and if women be,
by their very constitution, slaves, and not allowed to breathe
the sharp invigorating air of freedom, they must ever languish
like exotics, and be reckoned beautiful flaws in nature.
As to the argument respecting the subjection in which the sex
has ever been held, it retorts on man. The many have always been
enthralled by the few; and monsters, who scarcely have shown any
discernment of human excellence, have tyrannised over thousands
of their fellow-creatures. Why have men of superior endowments
submitted to such degradation? For, is it not universally acknowledged
that kings, viewed collectively, have ever been inferior, in abilities
and virtue, to the same number of men taken from the common mass
of mankind-yet have they not, and are they not still treated with
a degree of reverence that is an insult to reason? China is not
the only country where a living man has been made a God. Men have
submitted to superior strength to enjoy with impunity the pleasure
of the moment; women have only done the same, and therefore till
it is proved that the courtier, who servilely resigns the birthright
of a man, is not a moral agent, it cannot be demonstrated that
woman is essentially inferior to man because she has always been
subjugated.
Brutal force has hitherto governed the world, and that the science
of politics is in its infancy, is evident from philosophers scrupling
to give the knowledge most useful to man that determinate distinction.
I shall not pursue this argument any further than to establish
an obvious inference, that as sound politics diffuse liberty,
mankind, including woman, will become more wise and virtuous.
NOTES
[1] Why should women be censured with petulant acrimony because
they seem to have a passion for a scarlet coat? Has not an education
placed them more on a level with soldiers than any other class
of men?
[2] Similar feelings has Milton's pleasing picture of paradisiacal
happiness ever raised in my; yet, instead of envying the lovely
pair, I have with concious dignity or satanic pride turned to
hell for sublimer objects. In the same style, when viewing some
noble monument of human art, I have traced the emanation of the
Deity in the order I admired, till, descending from that giddy
height, I have caught myself contemplating the grandest of all
human sights; for fancy quickly placed in some solitary recess
an outcast of fortune, rising superior to passion and discontent.
[3] For example, the herd of Novelists.
[4] Vide Rousseau and Swedenborg.
CHAPTER III
THE SAME SUBJECT CONTINUED
Bodily strength from being the distinction of heroes is now sunk
into such unmerited contempt that men, as well as women, seem
to think it unnecessary; the latter, as it takes from their feminine
graces, and from that lovely weakness, the source of their undue
power; and the former, because it appears inimical to the character
of a gentleman.
That they have both, by departing from one extreme run into another,
may easily be proved; but first it may be proper to observe that
a vulgar error has obtained a degree of credit, which has given
force to a false conclusion, in which an effect has been mistaken
for a cause.
People of genius have very frequently impaired their constitutions
by study or careless inattention to their health, and the violence
of their passions bearing a proportion to the vigour of their
intellects, the sword's destroying the scabbard has become almost
proverbial, and superficial observers have inferred from thence
that men of genius have commonly weak, or, to use a more fashionable
phrase, delicate constitutions. Yet the contrary, I believe, will
appear to be the fact; for, on diligent inquiry, I find that strength
of mind has in most cases been accompanied by superior strength
of body,--natural soundness of constitution,--not that robust
tone of nerves and vigour of muscles, which arise from bodily
labour, when the mind is quiescent, or only directs the hands.
Dr. Priestley has remarked, in the preface to his biographical
chart, that the majority of great men have lived beyond fortyfive.
And considering the thoughtless manner in which they have lavished
their strength when investigating a favourite science, they have
wasted the lamp of life, forgetful of the midnight hour; or, when
lost in poetic dreams, fancy has peopled the scene, and the soul
has been disturbed, till it shook the constitution by the passions
that meditation had raised,--whose objects, the baseless fabric
of a vision, faded before the exhausted eye,--they must have had
iron frames. Shakespeare never grasped the airy danger with a
nerveless hand, nor did Milton tremble when he led Satan far from
the confines of his dreary prison. These were not the ravings
of imbecility, the sickly effusions of distempered brains, but
the exuberance of fancy, that " in a fine frenzy " wandering,
was not continually reminded of its material shackles.
I am aware that this argument would carry me further than it may
be supposed I wish to go; but I follow truth, and still adhering
to my first position, I will allow that bodily strength seems
to give man a natural superiority over woman; and this is the
only solid basis on which the superiority of the sex can be built.
But I still insist that not only the virtue but the knowledge
of the two sexes should be the same in nature, if not in degree,
and that women, considered not only as moral but rational creatures,
ought to endeavour to acquire human virtues (or perfections) by
the same means as men, instead of being educated like a fanciful
kind of half being--one of Rousseau's wild chimeras.[1]
But if strength of body be with some show of reason the boast
of men, why are women so infatuated as to be proud of a defect
? Rousseau has furnished them with a plausible excuse, which could
only have occurred to a man whose imagination had been allowed
to run wild, and refine on the impressions made by exquisite senses;
that they might forsooth have a pretext for yielding to a natural
appetite without violating a romantic species of modesty, which
gratifies the pride and libertinism of man.
Women, deluded by these sentiments, sometimes boast of their weakness,
cunningly obtaining power by playing on the weakness of men; and
they may well glory in their illicit sway, for, like Turkish bashaws,
they have more real power than their masters; but virtue is sacrificed
to temporary gratifications, and the respectability of life to
the triumph of an hour.
Women, as well as despots, have now perhaps more power than they
would have if the world, divided and subdivided into kingdoms
and families, were governed by laws deduced from the exercise
of reason; but in obtaining it, to carry on the comparison, their
character is degraded, and licentiousness spread through the whole
aggregate of society. The many become pedestal to the few. I,
therefore, will venture to assert that till women are more rationally
educated, the progress of human virtue and improvement in knowledge
must receive continual checks. And if it be granted that woman
was not created merely to gratify the appetite of man, or to be
the upper servant who provides his meals and takes care of his
linen, it must follow that the first care of those mothers or
fathers who really attend to the education of females should be,
if not to strengthen the body, at least not to destroy the constitution
by mistaken notions of beauty and female excellence; nor should
girls ever be allowed to imbibe the pernicious notion that a defect
can, by any chemical process of reasoning, become an excellence.
In this respect I am happy to find that the author of one of the
most instructive books that our country has produced for children,
coincides with me in opinion. I shall quote his pertinent remarks
to give the force of his respectable authority to reason.[2]
But should it be proved that woman is naturally weaker than man,
whence does it follow that it is natural for her to labour to
become still weaker than nature intended her to be? Arguments
of this cast are an insult to common sense, and savour of passion.
The divine right of husbands, like the divine right of kings,
may, it is to be hoped, in this enlightened age, be contested
without danger; and though conviction may not silence many boisterous
disputants, yet, when any prevailing prejudice is attacked, the
wise will consider, and leave the narrow-minded to rail with thoughtless
vehemence at innovation.
The mother who wishes to give true dignity of character to her
daughter must, regardless of the sneers of ignorance, proceed
on a plan diametrically opposite to that which Rousseau has recommended
with all the deluding charms of eloquence and philosophical sophistry,
for his eloquence renders absurdities plausible, and his dogmatic
conclusions puzzle, without convincing, those who have not ability
to refute them.
Throughout the whole animal kingdom every young creature requires
almost continual exercise, and the infancy of children, conformable
to this intimation, should be passed in harmless gambols that
exercise the feet and hands, without requiring very minute direction
from the head, or the constant attention of a nurse. In fact,
the care necessary for self-preservation is the first natural
exercise of the understanding as little inventions to amuse the
present moment unfold the imagination. But these wise designs
of nature are counteracted by mistaken fondness or blind zeal.
The child is not left a moment to its own direction--particularly
a girl and thus rendered dependent. Dependence is called natural.
To preserve personal beauty--woman's glory--the limbs and faculties
are cramped with worse than Chinese bands, and the sedentary life
which they are condemned to live, whilst boys frolic in the open
air, weakens the muscles and relaxes the nerves. As for Rousseau's
remarks, which have since been echoed by several writers, that
they have naturally, that is, from their birth, independent of
education, a fondness for dolls, dressing, and talking, they are
so puerile as not to merit a serious refutation. That a girl,
condemned to sit for hours together listening to the idle chat
of weak nurses, or to attend at her mother's toilet, will endeavour
to join the conversation, is, indeed, very natural; and that she
will imitate her mother or aunts, and amuse herself by adorning
her lifeless doll, as they do in dressing her, poor innocent babe!
is undoubtedly a most natural consequence. For men of the greatest
abilities have seldom had sufficient strength to rise above the
surrounding atmosphere; and if the pages of genius have always
been blurred by the prejudices of the age, some allowance should
be made for a sex, who, like kings, always see things through
a false medium.
Purposing these reflections, the fondness for dress, conspicuous
in woman, may be easily accounted for, without supposing it the
result of a desire to please the sex on which they are dependent.
The absurdity, in short, of supposing that a girl is naturally
a coquette, and that a desire connected with the impulse of nature
to propagate the species, should appear even before an improper
education has, by heating the imagination, called it forth prematurely,
is so unphilosophical, that such a sagacious observer as Rousseau
would not have adopted it, if he had not been accustomed to make
reason give way to his desire of singularity, and truth to a favourite
paradox. Yet thus to give a sex to mind was not very consistent
with the principles of a man who argued so warmly, and so well,
for the immortality of the soul. But what a weak barrier is truth
when it stands in the way of an hypothesis ! Rousseau respected
--almost adored virtue--and yet he allowed himself to love with
sensual fondness. His imagination constantly prepared inflammable
fuel for his inflammable senses; but, in order to reconcile his
respect for self-denial, fortitude, and those heroic virtues,
which a mind like his could not coolly admire, he labours to invert
the law of nature, and broaches a doctrine pregnant with mischief,
and derogatory to the character of supreme wisdom.
His ridiculous stories, which tend to prove that girls are naturally
attentive to their persons, without laying any stress on daily
example, are below contempt. And that a little miss should have
such a correct taste as to neglect the pleasing amusement of making
O's, merely because she perceived that it was an ungraceful attitude,
should be selected with the anecdotes of the learned pig.[3]
I have, probably, had an opportunity of observing more girls in
their infancy than J. J. Rousseau. I can recollect my own feelings,
and I have looked steadily around me; yet, so far from coinciding
with him in opinion respecting the first dawn of the female character,
I will venture to affirm, that a girl, whose spirits have not
been damped by inactivity, or innocence tainted by false shame,
will always be a romp, and the doll will never excite attention
unless confinement allows her no alternative. Girls and boys,
in short, would play, harmlessly together, if the distinction
of sex was not inculcated long before nature makes any difference.
I will go further, and affirm, as an indisputable fact, that most
of the women, in the circle of my observation, who have acted
like rational creatures, or shown any vigour of intellect, have
accidentally been allowed to run wild, as some of the elegant
formers of the fair sex would insinuate.
The baneful consequences which flow from inattention to health
during infancy and youth, extend further than is supposed-dependence
of body naturally produces dependence of mind; and how can she
be a good wife or mother, the greater part of whose time is employed
to guard against or endure sickness? Nor can it be expected that
& woman will resolutely endeavour to strengthen her constitution
and abstain from enervating indulgences, if artificial notions
of beauty, and false descriptions of sensibility, have been early
entangled with her motives of action. Most men are sometimes obliged
to bear with bodily inconveniences, and to endure, occasionally,
the inclemency of the elements; but genteel women are, literally
speaking, slaves to their bodies, and glory in their subjection.
I once knew a weak woman of fashion, who was more than commonly
proud of her delicacy and sensibility. She thought a distinguishing
taste and puny appetite the height of all human perfection, and
acted accordingly. I have seen this weak sophisticated being neglect
all the duties of life, yet recline with self-complacency on a
sofa, and boast of her want of appetite as a proof of delicacy
that extended to, or, perhaps, arose from, her exquisite sensibility;
for it is difficult to render intelligible such ridiculous jargon.
Yet, at the moment, I have seen her insult a worthy old gentlewoman,
whom unexpected misfortunes had made dependent on her ostentatious
bounty, and who, in better days, had claims on her gratitude.
Is it possible that a human creature could have become such a
weak and depraved being, if, like the Sybarites, dissolved in
luxury, everything like virtue had not been worn pressed by precept,
a poor substitute, it is of mind, though it serves as a fence
against vice?
Such a woman is not a more irrational monster than some of the
Roman emperors, who were depraved by lawless power. Yet, since
kings have been more under the restraint of law, and the curb,
however weak, of honour, the records of history are not filled
with such unnatural instances of folly and cruelty, nor does the
despotism that kills virtue and genius in the bud, hover over
Europe with that destructive blast which desolates Turkey, and
renders the men, as well as the soil, unfruitful.
Women are everywhere in this deplorable state; for, in order to
preserve their innocence, as ignorance is courteously termed,
truth is hidden from them, and they are made to assume an artificial
character before their faculties have acquired any strength. Taught
from their infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes
itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks
to adore its prison. Men have various employments and pursuits
which engage their attention, and give a character to the opening
mind; but women, confined to one, and having their thoughts constantly
directed to the most insignificant part of themselves, seldom
extend their views beyond the triumph of the hour. But were their
understanding once emancipated from the slavery to which the pride
and sensuality of man and their short-sighted desire, like that
of dominion in tyrants, of present sway, has subjected them, we
should probably read of their weaknesses with surprise. I must
be allowed to pursue the argument a little further.
Perhaps, if the existence of an evil being were allowed, who,
in the allegorical language of Scripture, went about seeking whom
he should devour, he could not more effectually degrade the human
character, than by giving a man absolute power.
This argument branches into various ramifications. Birth, riches,
and every extrinsic advantage that exalt a man above his fellows,
without any mental exertion, sink him in reality below them. In
proportion to his weakness, he is played upon by designing men,
till the bloated monster has lost all traces of humanity. And
that tribes of-men, like flocks of sheep, should quietly follow
such a leader, is a solecism that only a desire of present enjoyment
and narrowness of understanding can solve. Educated in slavish
dependence, and enervated by luxury and sloth, where shall we
find men who will stand forth to assert the rights of man, or
claim the privilege of moral beings, who should have but one road
to excellence? Slavery to monarchs and ministers, which the world
will be long in freeing itself from, and whose deadly grasp stops
the progress of the human mind, is not yet abolished.
Let not men then in the pride of power, use the same arguments
that tyrannic kings and venal ministers have used, and fallaciously
assert that woman ought to be subjected because she has always
been so. But, when man, governed by reasonable laws, enjoys his
natural freedom, let him despise woman, if she do not share it
with him; and, till that glorious period arrives, in descanting
on the folly of the sex, let him not overlook his own.
Women, it is true, obtaining power by unjust means, by practising
or fostering vice, evidently lose the rank which reason would
assign them, and they become either abject slaves or capricious
tyrants. They lose all simplicity, all dignity of mind, in acquiring
power, and act as men are observed to act when they have been
exalted by the same means.
It is time to effect a revolution in female manners--time to restore
to them their lost dignity--and make them, as a part of the human
species, labour by reforming themselves to reform the world. It
is time to separate unchangeable morals from local manners. If
men be demi-gods, why let us serve them! And if the dignity of
the female soul be as disputable as that of animals--if their
reason does not afford sufficient light to direct their conduct
whilst unerring instinct is denied--they are surely of all creatures
the most miserable ! and, bent beneath the iron hand of destiny,
must submit to be a fair defect in creation. But to justify the
ways of Providence respecting them, by pointing out some irrefragable
reason for thus making such a large portion of mankind accountable
and not accountable, would puzzle the subtilest casuist.
The only solid foundation for morality appears to be the character
of the Supreme Being; the harmony of which arises from a balance
of attributes,--and, to speak with reverence, one attribute seems
to imply the necessity of another. He must be just, because He
is wise; He must be good, because He is omnipotent. For to exalt
one attribute at the expense of another equally noble and necessary,
bears the stamp of the warped reason of man--the homage of passion.
Man, accustomed to bow down to power in his savage state, can
seldom divest himself of this barbarous prejudice, even when civilisation
determines how much superior mental is to bodily strength; and
his reason is clouded by these crude opinions, even when he thinks
of the Deity. His omnipotence is made to swallow up, or preside
over His other attributes, and those morals are supposed to limit
His power irreverently, who think that it must be regulated by
His wisdom.
I disclaim that specious humility which, after investigating nature,
stops at the Author. The High and Lofty one, who inhabiteth eternity,
doubtless possesses many attributes of which we can form no conception;
but Reason tells me that they cannot dash with those I adore--and
I am compelled to listen to her voice.
It seems natural for man to search for excellence, and either
to trace it in the object that he worships, or blindly to invest
it with perfection, as a garment. But what good effect can the
latter mode of worship have on the moral conduct of a rational
being? He bends to power; he adores a dark cloud, which may open
a bright prospect to him, to burst in angry, lawless fury, on
his devoted head--he knows not why. And, supposing that the Deity
acts from the vague impulse of an undirected will, man must also
follow his own, or act according to rules, deduced from principles
which he disclaims as irreverent. Into this dilemma have both
enthusiasts and cooler thinkers fallen, when they laboured to
free men from the wholesome restraints which a just conception
of the character of God imposes.
It is not impious thus to scan the attributes of the Almighty:
in fact, who can avoid it that exercises his faculties? For to
love God as the fountain of wisdom, goodness, and power, appears
to be the only worship useful to a being who wishes to acquire
either virtue or knowledge. A blind unsettled affection may, like
human passions, occupy the mind and warm the heart, whilst, to
do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God, is forgotten.
I shall pursue this subject still further, when I consider religion
in a light opposite to that recommended by Dr. Gregory, who treats
it as a matter of sentiment or taste.
To return from this apparent digression. It were to be wished
that women would cherish an affection for their husbands, founded
on the same principle that devotion ought to rest upon. No other
firm base is there under heaven--for let them beware of the fallacious
light of sentiment; too often used as a softer phrase for sensuality.
It follows then, I think, that from their infancy women should
either be shut up like Eastern princes, or educated in such a
manner as to be able to think and act for themselves.
Why do men halt between two opinions, and expect impossibilities?
Why do they expect virtue from a slave, from a being whom the
constitution of civil society has rendered weak, if not vicious?
Still I know that it will require a considerable length of time
to eradicate the firmly rooted prejudices which sensualists have
planted; it will also require some time to convince women that
they act contrary to their real interest on an enlarged scale,
when they cherish or affect weakness under the name of delicacy,
and to convince the world that the poisoned source of female vices
and follies, if it be necessary, in compliance with custom, to
use synonymous terms in a lax sense, has been the sensual homage
paid to beauty:--to beauty of features; for it has been shrewdly
observed by a German writer, that a pretty woman, as an object
of desire, is generally allowed to be so by men of all descriptions;
whilst a fine woman, who inspires more sublime emotions by displaying
intellectual beauty, may be overlooked or observed with indifference,
by those men who find their happiness in their gratification of
their appetites. I foresee an obvious retort--whilst man remains
such an imperfect being as he appears hitherto to have been, he
will, more or less, be the slave of his appetites; and those women
obtaining most power who gratify a predominant one, the sex is
degraded by a physical, if not by a moral necessity.
This objection has, I grant, some force; but while such a sublime
precept exists, as, "Be pure as your heavenly Father is pure";
it would seem that the virtues of man are not limited by the Being
who alone could limit them; and that he may press forward without
considering whether he steps out of his sphere by indulging such
a noble ambition. To the wild billows it has been said, "Thus
far shalt thou go, and no farther; and here shall thy proud waves
be stayed." Vainly then do they beat and foam, restrained
by the power that confines the struggling planets in their orbits,
matter yields to the great governing Spirit. But an immortal soul,
not restrained by mechanical laws and struggling to free itself
from the shackles of matter, contributes to, instead of disturbing,
the order of creation, when, co-operating with the Father of spirits,
it tries to govern itself by the invariable rule that, in a degree,
before which our imagination faints, regulates the universe.
Besides, if women be educated for dependence, that is, to act
according to the will of another fallible being, and submit, right
or wrong, to power, where are we to stop? Are they to be considered
as vicegerents allowed to reign over a small domain, and answerable
for their conduct to a higher tribunal, liable to error? It will
not be difficult to prove that such delegates will act like men
subjected by fear, and make their children and servants endure
their tyrannical oppression. As they submit without reason, they
will, having no fixed rules to square their conduct by, be kind,
or cruel, just as the whim of the moment directs; and we ought
not to wonder if sometimes, galled by their heavy yoke, they take
a malignant pleasure in resting it on weaker shoulders.
But, supposing a woman, trained up to obedience, be married to
a sensible man, who directs her judgment without making her feel
the servility of her subjection, to act with as much propriety
by this reflected light as can be expected when reason is taken
at secondhand, yet she cannot ensure the life of her protector;
he may die and leave her with a large family.
A double duty devolves on her; to educate them in the character
of both father and mother; to form their principles and secure
their property. But, alas! she has never thought, much less acted
for herself. She has only learned to please [4] men, to depend
gracefully on them; yet, encumbered with children, how is she
to obtain another protector--a husband to supply the place of
reason? A rational man, for we are not treading on romantic ground,
though he may think her a pleasing docile creature, will not choose
to marry a family for love, when the world contains many more
pretty creatures. What is then to become of her? She either falls
an easy prey to some mean fortune-hunter, who defrauds her children
of their paternal inheritance, and renders her miserable; or becomes
the victim of discontent and blind indulgence. Unable to educate
her sons, or impress them with respect,--for it is not a play
on words to assert, that people are never respected, though filling
an important station, who are not respectable,--she pines under
the anguish of unavailing impotent regret. The serpent's tooth
enters into her very soul, and the vices of licentious youth bring
her with sorrow, if not with poverty also, to the grave.
This is not an overcharged picture; on the contrary, it is a very
possible case, and something similar must have fallen under every
attentive eye.
I have, however, taken it for granted, that she was well disposed,
though experience shows, that the blind may as easily be led into
a ditch as along the beaten road. But supposing, no very improbable
conjecture, that a being only taught to please must still find
her happiness in pleasing; what an example of folly, not to say
vice, will she be to her innocent daughters! The mother will be
lost in the coquette, and, instead of making friends of her daughters,
view them with eyes askance, for they are rivals--rivals more
cruel than any other, because they invite a comparison, and drive
her from the throne of beauty, who has never thought of a seat
on the bench of reason.
It does not require a lively pencil, or the discriminating outline
of a caricature, to sketch the domestic miseries and petty vices
which such a mistress of a family diffuses. Still she only acts
as a woman ought to act, brought up according to Rousseau's system.
She can never be reproached for being masculine, or turning out
of her sphere; nay, she may observe another of his grand rules,
and, cautiously preserving her reputation free from spot, be reckoned
a good kind of woman. Yet in what respect can she be termed good?
She abstains, it is true, without any great struggle, from committing
gross crimes; but how does she fulfil her duties? Duties! in truth
she has enough to think of to adorn her body and nurse a weak
constitution.
With respect to religion, she never presumed to judge for herself;
but conformed, as a dependent creature should, to the effects
of a good education ! These the virtues of man's helpmate ![5]
I must relieve myself by drawing a different picture.
Let fancy now present a woman with a tolerable understanding,
for I do not wish to leave the line of mediocrity, whose constitution,
strengthened by exercise, has allowed her body to acquire its
full vigour; her mind, at the same time, gradually expanding itself
to comprehend the moral duties of life, and in what human virtue
and dignity consist.
Formed thus by the discharge of the relative duties of her station,
she marries from affection, without losing sight of prudence,
and looking beyond matrimonial felicity, she secures her husband's
respect before it is necessary to exert mean arts to please him
and feed a dying flame, which nature doomed to expire when the
object became familiar, when friendship and forbearance take place
of a more ardent affection. This is the natural death of love,
and domestic peace is not destroyed by struggles to prevent its
extinction. I also suppose the husband to be virtuous; or she
is still more in want of independent principles.
Fate, however, breaks this tie. She is left a widow, perhaps without
a sufficient provision; but she is not desolate! The pang of nature
is felt; but after time has softened sorrow into melancholy resignation,
her heart turns to her children with redoubled fondness, and anxious
to provide for them, affection gives a sacred heroic cast to her
maternal duties. She thinks that not only the eye sees her virtuous
efforts from whom all her comfort now must flow, and whose approbation
is life; but her imagination, a little abstracted and exalted
by grief, dwells on the fond hope that the eyes which her trembling
hand closed, may still see how she subdues every wayward passion
to fulfil the double duty of being the father as well as the mother
of her children. Raised to heroism by misfortunes, she represses
the first faint dawning of a natural inclination, before it ripens
into love, and in the bloom of life forgets her sex--forgets the
pleasure of an awakening passion, which might again have been
inspired and returned. She no longer thinks of pleasing, and conscious
dignity prevents her from priding herself on account of the praise
which her conduct demands. Her children have her love, and her
brightest hopes are beyond the grave, where her imagination often
strays.
I think I see her surrounded by her children, reaping the reward
of her care. The intelligent eye meets hers, whilst health and
innocence smile on their chubby cheeks, and as they grow up the
cares of life are lessened by their grateful attention. She lives
to see the virtues which she endeavoured to plant on principles,
fixed into habits, to see her children attain a strength of character
sufficient to enable them to endure adversity without forgetting
their mother's example.
The task of life thus fulfilled, she calmly waits for the sleep
of death, and rising from the grave, may say--"Behold, Thou
gavest me a talent, and here are five talents."
I wish to sum up what I have said in a few words, for I here throw
down my gauntlet, and deny the existence of sexual virtues, not
excepting modesty. For man and woman, truth, if I understand the
meaning of the word, must be the same; yet the fanciful female
character, so prettily drawn by poets and novelists, demanding
the sacrifice of truth and sincerity, virtue becomes a relative
idea, having no other foundation than utility, and of that utility
men pretend arbitrarily to judge, shaping it to their own convenience.
Women, I allow, may have different duties to fulfil; but they
are human duties, and the principles that should regulate the
discharge of them, I sturdily maintain, must be the same.
To become respectable, the exercise of their of their understanding
is necessary, there is of character; I mean bow to the authority
slaves of opinion.
In the superior ranks of life how seldom do we meet with a man
of superior abilities, or even common acquirements? The reason
appears to me clear, the state they are born in was an unnatural
one. The human character has ever been formed by the employments
the individual, or class, pursues; and if the faculties are not
sharpened by necessity, they must remain obtuse. The argument
may fairly be extended to women; for, seldom occupied by serious
business, the pursuit of pleasure gives that insignificancy to
their character which renders the society of the great so insipid.
The same want of firmness, produced by a similar cause, forces
them both to fly from themselves to noisy pleasures, and artificial
passions, till vanity takes place of every social affection, and
the characteristics of humanity can scarcely be discerned. Such
are the blessings of civil governments, as they are at present
organised, that wealth and female softness equally tend to debase
mankind, and are produced by the same cause; but allowing women
to be rational creatures, they should be incited to acquire virtues
which they may call their own, for how can a rational being be
ennobled by anything that is not obtained by its own exertions?
NOTES
[1] "Researches into abstract and speculative truths the
principles and axioms of sciences,--in short, everything which
tends to generalise our ideas,--is not the proper province of
women, their studies should be relative to points of practice;
it belongs to them to apply those principles which men have discoveredand
it is their part to make observations which direct men to the
establishment of general principles. All the ideas of women, which
have not the immediate tendency to points of duty should be directed
to the study of men, and to the attainment of those agreeable
accomplishments which have taste for their objectfor as to works
of genius they are beyond their capacity neither have they sufficient
precision or power of attention to succeed in sciences which require
accuracyand as to physical knowledge, it belongs to those only
who are most active, most inquisitive, who comprehend the greatest
variety of objects; in short, it belongs to those who have the
strongest powers, and who exercise them most, to judge of the
relations between sensible beings and the laws of nature. A woman
who is naturally weak, and does not carry her ideas to any great
extent, knows how to judge and make a proper estimate of those
movements which she sets to work, in order to aid her weakness;
and these movements are the passions of men. The mechanism she
employs is much more powerful than ours, for all her levers move
the human heart. She must have the skill to incline us to do everything
which her sex will not enable her to do herself, and which is
necessary or agreeable to her; therefore she ought to study the
mind of man thoroughly, not the mind of man in general, abstractedly,
but the dispositions of those men to whom she is subject either
by the laws of her country or by the force of opinion. She should
learn to penetrate into their real sentiments from their conversation,
their actions, their looks and gestures. She should also have
the art, by her own conversation, actions, looks, and gestures,
to communicate those sentiments which are agreeable to them without
seeming to intend it. Men will argue more philosophically about
the human heartbut women will read the heart of men better than
they. It belongs to women--if I may be allowed the expression--to
form an experimental morality, and to reduce the study of man
to a system Women have most wit, men have most geniuswomen observe,
men reason. From the Concurrence of both we derive the clearest
light and the most perfect knowledge which the human mind is of
itself capable of attaining. In one word, from hence we acquire
the most intimate acquaintance, both with ourselves and others,
of which our nature is capable; and it is thus that art has a
constant tendency to perfect those endowments which nature has
bestowed. The world is the book of women." -ROUSSEAU'S Emilius.
I hope my readers still remember the comparison which I have brought
forward between women and officers.
[2] "A respectable old man gives the following sensible account of the method he pursued when educating his daughter: 'I endeavoured to give both to her mind and body a degree of vigour which is seldom found in the female sex. As soon as she was sufficiently advanced in strength to be capable of the lighter labours of husbandry and gardening I employed her as my constant companion. Selene--for that was her name--soon acquired a dexterity in ill these rustic employments which I considered with equal pleasure and admiration. If women are in general feeble both in body and mind it arises less from nature than from education. We encourage a vicious indolence and inactivity which we falsely call delicacy. Instead of hardening their minds by the severer principles of reason and philosophy, we breed them to useless art which terminate in vanity and sensuality. In most of the countries which I had visited they are taught nothing of an higher nature than a few modulations of the voice or useless postures of the body; their time is consumed in sloth or trifles and tribulations become the only pursuit capable of interesting them. We seem to forget that it is upon the qualities of the female sex that our own domestic comforts and the education of our children must depend. And what are the comforts or the education which a race of being corrupted from their infancy and unacquainted with all the duties of life are fitted to bestow? To touch a musical instrument with useless skill to exhibit their cultural or affected graces to the eyes of indolent and debauched youn